Love Lie Bleeding...

So many people have themselves convinced they are being loving...when in truth? 

All they are doing is being selfish. 

It's a common trap for the delusional. 

No matter how you might dress it up as love...never mind to what degree you may have bullshitted yourself into believing your selfish ego gratification is some kind of 'love'...

If it satiates and indulges some thirst within you- to the eventual inexorable expense of the feelings, health and well being of another...?

IT'S NOT LOVE.  

It's not even SELF love. 

It's a goddamned lie.

No more lies.


It's actually fiendishly simple.

If it's done wholeheartedly, soulfully and willingly for the benefit of another human being??

It's love. 


If it's ALL for you?? 

It's NOT love. 

For that kind of self-love is no kinda' love at all. 

Period. 


And if you are not clear on the difference...then you do not yet have the emotional maturity to even USE the word love- let alone do it.


& you will keep being beaten over the head with this lesson until you learn.

& if you don't?


You will die alone and miserable...with only the memories of your self gratification to keep you warm.

While those you have 'blessed' with your 'love' and cast aside have LONG forgotten you...