Get Fucked.

Oh, that reminds me.

For my new friends- and there are some wonderful new people coming into my life here- I make no bones about using the word 'mother fucker'.

There is nothing wrong with this word.  It is a word much like any other- no better, no worse.  

It is NOT obscene.

What is OBSCENE is bombing other countries for oil.  THAT is obscene.  

But using the word 'mother fucker'?  

Not.

'Provided you don't OVERUSE it.

As a normal human being...there are times when I am nice...

& times when I am a little bit 'nasty'.      

To my mind...there are occasions when nothing will 'git r done' between consensual couples quite like a good 'fuck'.

(I'm not going to go into too much detail, any more than I would talk at great length about any of my other bodily functions.)  

But there are times when I 'make love' like a poet...

& times when I 'fuck' like a beast.

  

It's the duality of man, and nothing to be afraid or ashamed of. 

It's called being HUMAN.

To pretend otherwise is to LIE.  

& I hate lies more than anything. 

Now; 'Mother'?

I am a 'mother fucker'.

Unashamedly so.

I have fucked many mothers...just not my own.

To suggest that a mother- any mother- is somehow no longer capable of the kind of rabid, bestial glorious PASSION that accompanies a good 'fuck'...just because she has given birth...is not only absurd, abhorrent, anachronistic fundamentalist BULLSHIT...

it is also a another LIE.

To suggest a man can like a good fuck...

& not a woman...

Is SEXIST, not to mention MISOGYNIST.

Women do not belong in a nunnery once they have given birth.


Yes...I am a proud mother fucker.

There is nothing wrong with being one.

And there is nothing wrong with using the word.

To suggest there is would be like suggesting a mother cannot experience or has no entitlement to passion- in all it's manifestations.


THIS is about as raw as my truth gets;

nothing particularly confronting, if you are an adult with an open mind.

But if there IS anything here that you find offensive- I urge you in the strongest possible terms to hover that cursor over the 'unfriend' button.

It will save us all a lot of pain and suffering further on down the line.    

& to the 'Mothers' here?

Don't be afraid to 'GET FUCKED'!

Some Sound Bites for Nigella.

Re the Nigella Lawson matter. 

First thing's first.

A spokesperson for the restaurant told the Mirror newspaper: “We do not comment on the private matters of customers.”
Private?

The incident occurred in a public place. A restaurant.

'Private matter'? 

Don't you mean a clear case of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?

Violence against women anywhere goes without saying; that is not at issue.

Most of the tweets and comments seem to be about the fact that no one intervened. 

Neither anyone from the staff, nor any member of the public.

I think it is sad none of the staff stepped in.

But a member of the public?

People DO NOT INTERVENE, for the most part.

Cowardice?

Maybe. 

But self preservation is another reason. 

& THAT is as primal as your potential for violence under the right circumstances.

So it is natural.

I have another good reason for you not intervening.

I have said this before, but I will repeat it.

I can tell you from experience...intervening in ANY matter of ANY type ANYwhere is very likely to get YOU charged by the police. 

I would intervene anyway, whenever I see any kind of injustice- because it is the right thing to do.

But I do so also because I have this Kafkaesque guilt complex impregnated into me by the Catholic Priests, so I assume I will be arrested and imprisoned at any moment. 

So it doesn't bother me. 

I could also plead insanity.  Let's face it- I have the evidence on my side!!

(Plus I love a bloody good rumble!!)


You have to make your own choices. 

If you believe it is the right thing to do- then step in bravely.  You won't be criticised by me. 

But expect no quarter or dispensation from the police. They ROUTINELY advise against the public 
becoming involved in ANYTHING.

'No good deed goes unpunished.'

Be a hero at your own risk. 

But above all...be yourself...

& NOTHING/NO ONE can touch you.