Under Par.

You can be the nicest person on the planet, and there will be someone who thinks you're a piece of shit. 

You can be the worst prick who ever set foot on solid ground, and there will always be someone who thinks you're ok.

The vast majority of humans are somewhere in the middle. 

In the end what matters most, I think, is how you see yourself.  

Sadly...that will always be a gross underestimation.