Open Up Your Heart.

Open Up Your Heart to People.

Yes, most of them will turn tail & flee like you opened up your fly, but do it anyway. Because this is not about them.

It's about you.

Open Up Your Heart.

No sleazy agenda; no expectations, no conditions.

Just because it is the right thing to do.

A good thing to do.

That's all.

"THE SECRET."

OK.

There is no secret to life.

Life simply is...& you live it. Or you don't.

The REAL mystery is death.

What happenes after death?

OK. Here goes.

DEATH IS JUST A BIG SLEEP.

And in a universe we are understanding to be one of INFINITE POSSIBILITY...

Whatever reality you want again- whether it is this one you are living (BOONG!! PASS!!) or a variation on a theme- or a number of themes...

A completely new life or set of lives...

OR even SOMEONE ELSE'S life...

Whatever the hell reality you want for yourself of all the possible choices from the menu of an inexhaustible smorgasord ...

It simply HAS TO COME UP.

HAS TO!!! No matter WHAT it is!

However often you want it!!

No matter HOW MANY times you play it out!

Law of averages!

Of all the limitness, unnumerable possibilities...

Whatever you want HAS TO roll up AGAIN!

Who gives a rat's arse HOW LONG it takes if you're Ni-Ni'S??

So relax, and stop worrying about death.

Because there is NOTHING to worry about.

Hope this clears things up for you.

Three Steps To Heaven.

STEP ONE: Relinquish the ego.

STEP TWO: Live in peace.

STEP THREE: Go back and do 'Step One' properly.

Time.

I think one of the only problems I ever had on the Internet was handling my attractions to these wonderful new 'cyber people'.

I used to form what I called 'Cyber Crushes'.

(I put it down to the abused child- starved a lifetime for love. But that's another story.)

Suffice it to say- to that child- this medium was a Godsend.

But every upside has it's downside.

I have learned through painful experience that when we are attracted to people here- we are often attracted to what we THINK they are- rather than what they actually ARE.

(pretty much the same as in the real world.)

It takes a LONG time to get to know who someone really is.

Indeed...do we ever truly know anyone? No matter how much time we spend with them??

I have met a number of my FB friends in my travels, here & overseas.

And those who disappointed me the MOST, were those who were not what I expected; who I thought they were.

Were not who I had built up in my mind.

My most satisfying connections have been with those people I had NO expectations of. The people I allowed to show me who they really were...

Rather than what I thought they were.

Contrary to popular belief, most people ARE who they appear to be- AS LONG AS you do not expect too much from them.

They will usually show you who they are. As much as you need to know.

But it takes time.

You just need to give people time.

These things take TIME...

Surrender.

I never realised before how many people fear death.

I knew I feared it; but I thought I was the only one.

Other people seemed so blase about it. They would say things like 'you don't want to fear death'. 'Nothing you can do about it anyway'!

But for some reason, I did.

Same as I feared flying. I think they are related.

It's not the 'thing', so much as the lack of control over the thing.

The hardest thing for a human being to learn to do is to surrender. To give in to that which is beyond our control.

To let go.

When we can learn to do that...we can say goodbye to fear.

And when we say goodbye to fear...

ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE.

The Castle.

All this talk about 'Happiness'.

One of the main causes of mental illness might be the SHEER PANIC ATTACK that occurs when the armies of reality storm this castle of 'Happiness', & raze it to the ground.

Depression might be the realisation that it was all just an illusion.

This might also be the source of the healing.

Words.

Words.

Words are simply noises made with our mouths.

A chimpanzee can gibber.

In my life, there have been times I have said ALL the RIGHT things...& done nothing but the WRONG.

It's actions that count.

Words are usually the articulation of our thoughts, that prepare us for action. However, most of us forget the action.

We become so mesmerised by our words, we hypnotise ourselves into thinking that the repetition of these words in any number of different ways, & in many different locations to ever growing numbers of people, actually counts as action.

But in the end...this is only theatre.

Gibberish.

Right or wrong, delusion or not, we humans expect so much more from ourselves than our cousins in the ape world.

All right then.

So stop gibbering.

And start DOING.